3 Tips for Planning to Care for an Adult Sibling with Special Needs

//3 Tips for Planning to Care for an Adult Sibling with Special Needs

3 Tips for Planning to Care for an Adult Sibling with Special Needs

Posted by:  Jennifer A. Johnson

When a family has a child with special needs, the care of that child eventually falls on the shoulders of the entire family. The parents generally care for the child for as long as they are able. However, when the parents begin to age and are unable to care for their adult children with special needs, the siblings are often called upon to take over care of their special needs sibling. This brings extra responsibility and stress financially and emotionally, and can impact the schedule of the caregiving sibling. Siblings who are charged with the responsibility of a special needs adult should begin planning for how they are going to manage this situation before they must take over the responsibility.

Ease Your Way into Caregiving
The first tip for caring for an adult sibling with special needs is to ease your way into the role of caregiver. If the eventual care of a sibling with special needs is in the future, find tasks you can begin doing now. Maybe begin by taking them for an appointment or for some other outing. Another great opportunity is to care for them during times when your parents are out of town or in order to just give your parents a break. This can be beneficial for all family members involved. It can give tired and aging parents a bit of rest while also giving the special needs sibling the opportunity to become more familiar with living in a different place. It gives the sibling caregiver a good chance to get to experience the needs of their sibling in a time frame that is more controlled.

Explore Legal Needs
Chances are the parents of an adult special needs child have put into place many resources to help care for their special needs child once they are unable to do so. But if a sibling is to be the future caregiver, they need to be involved in this planning and understand their role and legal rights and responsibilities. One legal issue that needs to be addressed is guardianship. The family needs to decide when the caregiving sibling should assume the role of guardian and take care of all legal paperwork necessary, so that this is in place when needed. Our office can be of assistance in helping to be sure all the proper paperwork is complete. If there is a special needs trust in place, our attorneys can also help the family to make all the arrangements for the management of the trust. Legal matters such as guardianship and the management of trusts can often take time, so it is important to have these conversations early and make decisions, in advance, as a family.

Have a Financial Plan

Often parents plan for the long-term care of adult children with special needs. However, there are families that have no plans in place. If a sibling knows that they will eventually be the primary caregiver for their sibling, they should become familiar with any public benefits received by their special needs sibling, as well as public benefits available to family members who serve as caregivers. It is very important that parents and future sibling caregivers sit down and discuss wills, trusts, and insurance, so that the caregiver also understands what financial support will be left for the care of the sibling with special needs. Outlining the cost of caring for the special needs sibling can also be a helpful step in planning care. Once a sibling caregiver understands the financial support and costs of taking care of the sibling with special needs, then they can begin planning ahead and creating a budget that works.

Planning ahead and knowing the legal and financial needs of caring for a sibling with special needs can help make a difficult transition run more smoothly. These changes are hard for all family members involved. Support is available, because even the most prepared will need help at one turn or another.

If you have any questions about something you have read or would like additional information, please feel free to contact us.

Our firm is dedicated to helping our clients and their loved ones work through issues and implement sound legal planning to address them. If we can help in any way, please don’t hesitate to contact our office at (630) 221-1755.

By |2019-06-10T12:43:51+00:00June 24th, 2019|Special Needs Planning & Guardianship|Comments Off on 3 Tips for Planning to Care for an Adult Sibling with Special Needs